Saying Goodbye: Custody Transition Do’s and Don’ts
Years ago, when we first began sharing custody, I dreaded the time my children were with their father. I missed them terribly, and transitions triggered..
Protect Yourself from High-Conflict Exes and their Pattern of Dysfunction
When dealing with a High-Conflict Ex (HCE), it’s imperative to not get caught up in their constant complaining, negativity, and attacks. From my experience, there..
“You Chose to Marry Into That.” Statements that Perpetuate the Negative Stigma of Being a Stepmom
As a stepmom, people often make assumptions and judgements about what your role should be in your stepfamily life. Most of these people haven’t walked in..
The Importance of Structure and Consistency in the Lives of Children
Through my own experience with my stepdaughters, and with many years in the education system, I have learned the value of structure and consistency for..